On Friday night at the Tweet-up, Laura and I were chatting to Louisa about meeting bloggers and how actually meeting people face-to-face makes such a difference in the way you read their blogs.
It’s always funny meeting people from your online world for the first time. No matter how many photos they post of themselves, you always have a preconceived idea about what they look like and sound like. I’m not scared of meeting online people anymore… like I was years ago. All the BN meetings (a local baby forum) over the last 5 years have cured me of that for good! But as Laura and I were both saying, for some reason, meeting bloggers feels slightly different.
Bloggers tend to put more of themselves into their blog posts than forum participants do.
You know when you meet a group of people for a braai or a lunch, the first half hour or so is spent catching up on latest developments in each other’s lives. With bloggers that almost never happens… all the news is on their blogs. There’s no need to rehash it, and in fact, re-hashing is such a schlepp for me now. If you want to know what I’ve been doing, read my blog damnit! Why do I have to tell you too?!
Anyhoo, back to my point… after meeting Louisa for the first time a few weeks ago and listening to the way she speaks and watching her facial expressions, I have become an avid follower of her blog. I find it hillarious now, because as I’m reading I imagine her dry sense of humour, the lilt in her voice and her laugh as she’s writing her posts.
And on the subject of writing in your own space… I’ve been trying to get one of my colleagues to blog for months. I know she reads Janet’s and my blogs, but she never comments, yet she talks to us about what she’s read on them. Well, I’m pleased to say that she’s started one finally!
Then today she floored me! I asked her if she’d written a post yet and I helped her with hyperlinking. She commented about how easy it seemed to be and then proceeded to tell me that she’d got told by someone that they didn’t think she should blog because she wasn’t technical enough!!
I hate that! Blogging isn’t about technical stuff. It’s so easy to do. You don’t have to be a wizz-kid to get it right… all you need is something to say! It still makes me cross thinking about what she’d been told. And it makes me determined to help her in any way that I possibly can
LOL! And anyway, she’s proven more than once in the last few months that she can be as technical (if not more) as the rest of the IT team! But that’s besides the point… I’m sure she’ll love this world of blogging and find her spot to ramble on and vent and then maybe finally I’ll see some pics of her kids




Comments
Louisa
Laura
I thought the same thing to be honest – lol – but then you helped me and now I know more than I thought possible and while its still only a little in comparison – its a lot for me
KarinB
I’m yet to meet a fellow blogger face to face. *blush* Jen I love the way you write, its so thought provoking.
Huckdoll
It’s funny, when I started blogging, I was such a newbie. I knew nothing and it totally intimidated me too. But I learned and researched everything myself, rarely with any help from anyone and back then, it was always just about the writing and reading – I crave those simple days again so much and I feel like I almost have them back to be honest. You said it right, just having something to say! That really all you need…and reading others blogs helped immensely!
And yes, I feel the exact same way about meeting bloggers!
Janet B
I’m glad Annie has joined this world – it’s such a fun one to be a part of – would LOVE a get-together!
acidicice
I must say, you’re one of the bloggers that I read regularly that I would love to meet.
I agree that I read blogs differently after meeting people. Now when I read ‘Also me’ on Wenchy’s blog I can hear her saying it in my head.
I also feel a deeper connection and understanding of angel now.
I get it
angel
I love adding the personal relationship aspect to my blog reading!
My first blogger-meet was essentially a one-on-one with Sweets, and I was terrified! After that went as well as it did, the rest was a breeze.
angel
As for needing technical expertise- you’re so right! The various hosts are making it easier and easier to blog and add things and add links and change your look! When I started I had to hurriedly teach myself some HTML before I could add things to my sidebar, but its not necessary anymore!