Shocked at my neighbours

March 16, 2009 filed under kids | 14 Comments

Our study is upstairs, and I can kind of see the back of our one neighbours house over the wall.  Our garden is quite big, so we’re not living on top of our neighbours, but the trees aren’t quite high enough yet to block their kitchen windows and door from our view.

Last night, I was sitting at the PC blogging and twittering away when I hear shouting and their child shouting and crying (they have a little girl that must be about 3 years old).

Now I don’t often hear shouting from the house, but the child crying is not big news… kids cry!  That’s what they do… but what happened next was not normal by any account.

Then I hear the child screaming.  It was blood curdling.

So I open the curtains and look to see whether I can see anyone.  It was pitch dark in the house and garden.  Only a few upstairs lights were on.  And the screaming continues.

The “mother” must have noticed me watching, because the kitchen lights then came on, and the door opened.  She THEN LET THE CHILD INSIDE!!!

You could have blown me over with a feather!! What kind of “mother” leaves a 3 year old outside in the middle of the night and switches all the lights off???!?!?!?

That poor child.

Of course, I tweeted about it, and Graeme responded saying I should phone the police.  I suppose if we lived in another country that would be an option, but I seriously don’t believe they would do anything about it.

But what I promise I’m going to do… is keep a watching eye on their house.  If this happens again, I swear I’ll go outside and give her a mouthful or something.  There’s absolutely NO excuse for that in my mind.  It’s child abuse.  If your child was making you so mad, give her time out in the bathroom or something! You DON’T leave them alone in the dark… especially not outside the house!

I actually feel sick even thinking about it.

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  • Dolce


    OMG. Good for you Jents – go and give her an earful! That’s just not on, especially in this country!

  • Mom


    Oh my goodness! That’s dreadful! But don’t get involved by shouting over the wall – there are places to call – I shall found out – about child abuse. They are neighbours and you never want to have problems with your neighbours – they could turn on you! Be careful!

  • Laura


    Good lord Jeanette!!!! And its getting cold now at night!!!!!

    The police wouldnt have responded anyway BUT if it gets worse or you notice more Social Services are actually pretty responsive – drastic step but if the abuse is bad the child cant stay there!

    So lets hope it was just a REALLY REALLY bad night in that house!

  • Janet B


    Scary stuff! Be careful though and call social services – your best bet I think!

  • Gilz


    I’m totally shocked…

  • thejacksonfiles


    Ugh god that makes me feel all funny. Some people just don’t have a clue.

  • Louisa


    That’s terrible :-( poor kid…

  • Huckdoll


    Omg. Total abuse! I can’t believe it…the poor, poor little girl, how terrifying for her :(

  • Tanya


    oh no Jeanette!! Gawd that makes my blood boil!!! I actually just said to J yesterday I really wish our police were as good as they are in the US.

  • ExMi


    okay, that’s just fucking revolting.

    i’ve locked my kid in the bathroom once, but that’s only because i was home alone, he’d broken a glass bowl and i didn’t want him to step on the broken glass.

    It’s always tough deciding whether to intervene in your neighbour’s lives, but I say when there’s kids involved, fuck it and call the police, or ADT or someone. Child Welfare or something.

    Or write that terrible mother a fucking strongly worded note, and tell her what you think of her.

    Seriously, that shit is just not on.

  • supermom


    Especially not in our country!!! There’s even ADDED issues there. How on EARTH do they do that!!!! Look a little child like that out of the house. That’s shocking. And yes, I don’t think the police would have done anything

  • Fiona


    That’s incredibly sad. I wish we had a better system in SA that if things like this happen we’ll know the system will look after them but unfortunately that is not the case and we’re letting an innocent 3 year old suffer. I hope that is the worst of the abuse she has to go through. My heart breaks for that child :(

  • Corey~livingandloving


    oh my word that is just plain shocking.
    it breaks my heart. I mean seriously, My heart is hurting. all too often folks treat children in totally inhumane ways. :(

  • angel


    That is indeed shocking…

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