Let me sketch the scene… Lance has gone to Cape Town for the night, so the boys are terrorising me on my own tonight.
Bradley has been very good, because he knows he gets to sleep in my bed when dad is away (I lock us in the main bedroom at night with the alarm set in the rest of the house and garden when he’s away). Connor has been his most impossible self… like normal.
I actually got the better of Connor eventually. He didn’t want a bottle (that’s HUGE!), he wanted Milo like Bradley . I dragged him down the stairs a few times to insist that he finishes his Milo, and I think I eventually somewhere along the line gained control! For the first time in weeks!! He even brushed his teeth without too much drama.
Oh but then it was bedtime. He knew that Bradley was upstairs so he insisted to sleeping with Bradley right away. And then it was a nightmare… he wanted to play hide-and-seek and incy-wincy-spider while he’s lying next to Bradley. Bradley kept trying to turn away from him, or turn towards him and cuddle him.
Eventually I gave up, and went to watch Grays Anatomy instead… and I went back upstairs after 5 or so minutes… they were both fast asleep!! WOW! I think Bradley cuddled his brother to sleep!
So yes, that’s my happy and sad moment. Happy that it’s finally quiet. Sad because they didn’t need me.
And what’s the best medicine for me… red wine (it’s very yum)… a chocolate (it was yum)… and blogging about it… I feel calmer already.
Now hopefully, I can do some proofing!




Comments
Tanya
oh lol Jen J is in CT too and the girls are really pushing their luck! Thats so sweet re Bradley. Pity that won’t work on Saige just yet!
angel
Aw… a milestone!
Corey~livingandloving
hugs! I have to say though….it is cute to think of them cuddled up together like that. ♥
Glad you had a great mother’s day.
Mom
At least they weren’t fighting as they normally do when they touch each other – I usually have to keep them separated with NO touching!
Janet B
LOL! Boys will be boys, but there is some gentleness in them! Nice one!
Shayne
Great post – suc h a heartsore moment when we realise that our littlie’s don’t need as quite as much anymore.
Fab new header btw.
The Jackson Files
awwww…brothers cuddling is just too adorable.
isn’t red wine and chocolate the BEST medicine?
Gilz
Och what a lovely thought of them lying there cuddling each other to sleep…
boldly benny
I know it’s a tricky one and I’m not a mom but I think that A.) your boys will always need you and B.) it’s really cute that they can cuddle together and fall asleep – must’ve melted your heart!
Red and chocolate solve all my problems!
Laura
Aw very cute man! I actually find that leaving them to their own devices sometimes does work!
Lindy
Good on you for taking control.
I had a happy sad moment when I realized my almost 3 y/o had gone to the loo all by herself. WTF kid, don’t you neeeeed me anymore??!??! Then I smacked myself upside the head and thanked jeebus that she’s finally getting it!