We had Bradley’s party on Sunday… the photos will get posted just now on my photoblog.
And of course, at some stage through the party the conversation inevitably goes to discussing other parties.
A few of the moms were talking about a party held on Saturday for one of the girls in Bradley’s class. He’d been invited to the party, but decided that he didn’t want to go… I don’t think he was too impressed by the invite actually. LOL!
The theme was Bollywood, and it was held at the child’s home in a fancy golf estate close to the school.
Well, what came out of that conversation about it warrants a blog post of some sort! Bear in mind, that these kids are turning 6 years old this year… that’s all… 6.
Apparently it felt like going to a wedding. The mom had organised a three tiered cake. There were Bollywood style dancers everywhere and there was some kind of performance during the party too. If the child wasn’t dressed appropriately, then they were offered outfits when they walked in the door – they were actually dressed and had make-up, bindi’s and their hair done!
And the party packs… genuine leather handbags!! But that’s not all… they were filled with about R500 worth of stuff including bangles, bindi’s, henna, a leather purse etc etc.
The one mom who was telling me the story yesterday has a daughter that’s a bit of a tomboy, and she went to her mom half-way through the party (after trying to dance like everyone else) and said “I don’t want to be a sexy girl anymore”. And when they finally left, and she handed back the clothes she’d been given to wear… they were apparently black from all the mud A had been playing in
I wish he’d said yes!! Imagine the photos I could have taken!
I could have gotten a new handbag! LOL!
Anyhoo, here’s the point of my ramble… if this child’s 6 and she’s getting parties like this… imagine what’s going to happen a few years from now. How on earth are the parents going to top this?






Comments
Mom
OMW !! I can imagine it (having sat with a few moms and grans whilst they do karate – the party chatter is totally different to the party chatter when you children were little!!)
As I was reading it I KNEW exactly who you were talking about with her outfit getting all muddy! No she wouldn’t fit it into that sort of group – I’m sure she had a ball at Bradley’s and didn’t want to go home!! I hope they stay friends until matric – would love to see her at the matric dance!!!!
phillygirl
That is insane! Insane.
Janet B
Parents really go over the top these days! Our twins turned 1 and there were candy floss machines, and toffee apples (I ask you!)ponies and carousels … it’s ridiculous! Cost a fortune and I don’t think they remember a single thing!
The Jackson Files
omg. i totally want a bollywood party. even if i have to dress up as a sexy lady.
supermom
Oh word. That’s just not right~!
supermom
You know, how must kids feel when their parents don’t have that kind of money and can’t have parties NEAR as extravagant as that?! No child would want to go to their party?
Panni
That is just wrong on so many levels.
Cheryl Becker
It is so sad that parents are instilling the perception that young children need to impress their peers with bigger and better is best.
NatzG
In true JHB-Bollywood style!
angel
Is she terminal or something? ‘Coz thats the only way it would make sense to me. Its really sad… matric dances and the like are very much the same issue nowadays. What are they going to spend on this kid’s wedding one day? And what happens if they can’t do it again for some reason…?
Gilz
Sjoe. Wish I’d gotten an invite too. Sounds awesome.